WHEN YOUR PLANS ARE NOT HIS PLANS

I rarely talk about my faith and beliefs in this blog because this is not a faith or religion blog.  But sometimes, I have to and this is one of them.  My faith is a big part of who I am even when I am struggling.  It is an integral part of "the good life".  For many years I have been focused on what I want, the plans I have for ME.  I could get so wrapped up on my own life that I sometimes for to LISTEN to what God wants.
 
I am always asked, how does God "speaks to you"?  Sometimes in mockery and I respect that-- we all are entitled to our opinion.  But the truth is that it is more of a feeling and in some cases it does feel like a still small voice.  It is an overcoming emotion that comes to you and makes you realize that He is listening to your prayers and answering back.
 
The past couple of weeks have been pretty go-go-go for me in the professional realm and while I am happy about the future, a part of me felt like something was off.  Hard to explain.  I have been praying and praying over this, talking to my mother and fiance.  Finally yesterday during my morning prayers it came to me.
 
 
 
Right there in from of my face it was: what I thought I always wanted is not what I really want.  And more importantly God's plan for me.  That moment really rocked me because it was a total 180 from where I was.  And the emotions that came with realization were pretty overwhelming.  It is so good when the answer comes to you this way.  
 
I actually had this image of Jesus  leaning against the door with the sweetest smile on His face saying "It's been there all along.  You just had to catch up". 
 
Breaking the news to people who have helped me along the way in my career is going to be hard because they think they know what is best for me.  But for once I am choosing my personal life over my job.  Gone and finished are the days when I put my personal life on hold and it is time to start living, being a partner and wife, and a mother.  And I am really happy and content with that decision. 
 
I have friends wh have hinted that my life as I know it is finished.  That I am trading a thriving professional career to be "a mom to kids who are not even my own and to be a farmer's wife".  And to them I say, my life is now only beginning.  I am finally realizing that I need my people around me more than I need a job.  And this man and his kids are "my persons".  I am not finished.  I am just beginning what I think will be my most rewarding journey so far.
 

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  1. What a tremendous decision you've made. I'm sure it'll be difficult to break the news, but finding that stillness is a sure sign you've found the right path for you.

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    1. It truly is when you get to that point where you can feel stillness. I think that is when I realized this was the right path.

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  • This was beautiful to read. To let go and follow Him can be a scary thing but so much more rewarding and freeing. God bless you in your journey!

    I'm visiting for the 'Thought Provoking Thursday' link-up. : )

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    1. Thank you for stopping by and your kind words, Cathy. Yes, it is scary but oddly I am at peace for the most part. :)

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    2. I'm so proud of you, I know that your daddy in heaven is very pleased with your decision. You have given to much to your professional life; is Angie time. You go for it, David and his children are waiting for you with open arms. Love you.. .Mom.. .��

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  • What bravery it takes to realize this and admit it to others who have expectations for our lives! But you are so right that we must be open to where God is leading and obedient to what He says. Thank you so much for sharing this encouragement with us at Testimony Tuesday.

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    1. Thank you, Holly. I think I was more worried about breaking the news to my mentors but they have been so supportive and they have told me they could tell I was not completely i.

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  • Don't you think Jesus stands there like that for all of us for the longest time. It takes awhile to see the plan & road laid out for us...
    Its good to put your personal life ahead of your career... its what's going to mean the most when you're through with this world.

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    1. It has been my experience that He has been standing like that for me for the longest. I am a stubborn stubborn girl and it takes a while or a hit with what I call a spiritual 2x4 to really listen. Others it is just a matter of being quiet and listening.

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  • GOOD FOR YOU! And the amazing thing is, that the call within that we know to be our own desires is actually HIS call. No one else's. I am so happy to know you are learning this, because life is much more fun when we learn daily, something new about ourselves. Then, we are able to go out and love others the way we truly love ourselves.

    Thank you so much for having participate in the link party and also for coming today! Yes, Penny is the lucky winner, and I think she'll enjoy the lovely tea set! BISOUS BISOUS! Anita

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  • Wow! Thank you for sharing your heart and your journey. I love the clarity God gives when we know that we know the next step in our journey. Even if others question us. May God bless you in the start of your new adventure.

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  • Thank you so much for sharing! Your thoughts really resonate with me. I can't tell you how many times I've been guilty of trying to jam God into my plans and then wondered why things didn't work out as I thought they would. The beauty is in the turning and in recognizing that He's right there waiting for us to come to the end of ourselves. Many blessings as you being a this new journey!

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  • Maybe God is calling you to also continue on the path of sharing your faith journey. Great blog! Good for you to do the hard thing. Can't wait to hear about the blessings that are in store for you.

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    1. Jackie, funny you mentioned that. I started blogging because I wanted to share my thoughts about being a single Christian woman in a modern world but somehow that just went by the wayside. Maybe He is bringing me back from the detour I took.

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  • Hi Maria! Visiting from Tell His Story. Thank you for sharing this story. It is so inspiring to see how God can turn us around and just take off a blindfold before our eyes. It doesn't always feel good at the moment, but it usually doesn't take long before we can feel that it is right, and we get filled with His peace in our hearts. God bless your new journey into the future with God by your side!

    Just remember that many people may have an opinion about your life, but they are not the ones living it. You are. You don't have to answer to them. The only one you'll have to answer to is God, and He delights in an obedient heart. God will be there when you break the news, and they will understand. Perhaps not all at once, but they will understand at one point:0)
    -Ava Sophie

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    1. Ava Sophie, thank you for the supportive and comforting words. I actually broke the news to my two immediate bosses and they were extremely supportive. One of them actually told me that while I seemed happy about the promotion and did not seem excited as he would have expected me to be. They are both actually really happy for me and making this decision.

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  • Wow, I can't imagine how difficult a decision that must have been for you. That is amazing how tuned in you are to hearing God's voice. I know I have a hard time deciphering his voice with my own thoughts! Congratulations Maria!

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  • Wish you all the love and luck. With the kind of determination I sense in your words, you are sure to prove that you have made the right choice :)

    -Tanya

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  • It is marvelous how God speaks to us, and so often in the most quiet simple way. All the best to you MA on your new journey, no doubt it will continue to be filled with light, love and joy :)

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